Parents and Children

Yesterday was a happy for the family. Khushi and Muskan are growing up to become independent. Both of them have broken the tie from their parents. They slept on their own room, the room that use to be Dada’s room has become the girls’ first room. Shabs and Masooma are the proud parents. We were debating of the fact that raisin a child is a very difficult called project to complete in life. The point of argument was; who to blame if the child turns out to be a bad girl/boy?
I think that my brothers and sister are very lucky to have parents like Abbu Nasar and Ammi Namal. Any mistakes that we have done are the reaction of our own actions. Wednesday afternoon Shabs made me remember the sacrifice my Mom and Dad made to raised me. When I was born I use to be a very healthy baby, but in a matter of month my health was very deteriorated at the point of undernourished. When I came to senses I recall Mom and Dad standing by my in the emergency room of a hospital in Cumana. Then when I started to be in good shape health wise, dad was always there financially and physically as well as Mom. There was no opportunity for us to ask for anything because everything was given beforehand. Mom was always on the alert of what are we doing, eating, playing, studying, wearing, and in fact doing. Even when I was going to the University in Caracas she was an early morning raiser to prepare food for me to take to Caracas for weeks to come. The idea was that I didn’t have any trouble when studying. Dad and Mom made sue that anyone of their sons and daughter had no problems, i am sure that my brothers and sister will agree with me when I say that they have succeeded in provide us with everything to make us happy, regardless of the struggle they had to go through.
Some parents have other ways to brought up their child, which bring them to a crossroad where the parents have to choose between sons/daughters and the right path to follow. I think parents have to put their efforts 100% and try their best to raise their children the right way, and leave the rest to their sons/daughters to decide what path to follow. At the end you are lucky if you have parents that are really devoted to their children. Also as parent you are very fortunate if your sons/daughters are successfully following your footstep.
Love to all…
DiL